Having fantastic sex won’t guarantee a phone call back. Sex is not the glue that creates a relationship bond. It does help if it was good for both parties though. If you wonder if good sex will get you a phone call, here are some things to keep in mind.

Was It Really Good?

A mind blowing experience for you doesn’t equal the same for her. If you start tooting your own horn and bragging about how good it was, this can actually make her remember the evening differently. Be humble about it.

If your goal is to give her great sex, remember to think about her. Many men assume that because they got off, she must have enjoyed it too. Women need more of a work up before they will orgasm than a man does. Spend some extra time on her, use oral sex skills, and listen to what she wants to make it a truly good experience.

Why Won’t She Call?

Again, having great sex doesn’t mean she is interested in anything more. If the arrangement was for meaningless, no strings attached sex, don’t expect this to turn in to a relationship. She may have just wanted to have a need fulfilled, and you’ve done your part so she’s done. If this wasn’t the arrangement and she still won’t call, don’t be afraid to call her. Wait a few days and just place a non-threatening call to see how she’s doing. She may have been busy with work or family, or afraid to contact you.